Gudiya: 7 Things Every Parent Must Learn From Radhe And Sarla While Raising A Girl Child

Raising a girl child in India is not easy, but here's what you need to learn from Gudiya's parents Sarla and Radhe from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari.

#1 Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

The new And TV comedy show Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari is based on the life of a young and bubbly girl Gudiya, who has a ‘devil may care attitude’. She loves her life and is optimistic about everything that comes her way. Currently, on the show, her parents are worried about Gudiya’s marriage as no boy is ready to take her as a wife. But let us also tell you that this might be a huge problem for most of the parents but Sarla and Radhe do not blame their daughter for it. This is the most unique thing about Gudiya’s parents which makes  them different from the others.

Watch the latest episode of the show below:

On the occasion of National Daughter’s Day, we would like to share with you 7 important things every parent must learn from Sarla and Radhe while raising their girl child.

#2 She Is Not A Liability!

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

Have you heard of the dialogue “Ladkiya To Paraya Dhan Hoti Hain?” That’s what needs to change because most of the families in our country still look at their daughters as a liability. She is a part of your family and just because she is going to marry someone does not make any difference.

#3 Encourage Her To Become Independent

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

We always complain about girls being dependent on men; but why don’t we teach them to be independent in the first place? If a girl wants to study further, let her do it. If she wants to start a business, let her do it! Because if your child is independent then she will get out of any problem that comes her way.

#4 Marriage Is Not The Only Goal

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

In the old days and even today in some parts of the country, people get upset after the birth of a girl child because they think of having to save money for her marriage (dowry). Instead, save money for her education because when she is well educated, she will be smart enough to choose the right partner for herself.

#5 Girls Are Equal To Boys

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

If you wish to take one point from this article then it would be this. Stop discriminating on the basis of gender because ones strength can not be determined only through physical fitness rather its a combination of physical, mental and emotional fitness.

#6 Admire Her Uniqueness

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

Every child is unique, be it a daughter or a son. When it comes to Gudiya, Sarla and Radhe do find it tough to teach her how to adjust in society and adhere to its rules but they also admire the uniqueness of their daughter. They might not be appreciating her straight forward nature on her face but deep down they are proud of her.

#7 Don't Limit Her To Cooking Food And Household Chores. Let Her Explore

A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari
A still from Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari

What if she doesn’t know how to cook but plays chess very well. What if she doesn’t want to study further but wants to learn a musical instrument. Let her explore her options rather than asking her to do something that she doesn’t like just for the sake of society. As we saw in the show, Gudiya never wanted to study in school so she decided to study at home along with her parents and siblings. Her parents didn’t care what people might think and allowed her to do so.

#8 Make Her Aware Of The Facts Of Life

Gudiya Humari Sabhi Pe Bhari BTS
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Life is beautiful because it is unpredictable. At one point you could be the happiest and in the very next moment you might want to stay alone. Teach your daughter to be happy and to look at the brighter side of the situation. If there is a problem, there will be a solution. Make your daughter aware and teach her how to stay focused despite difficulties.

Our dearest Gudiya may not be the smartest or good looking but she is always optimistic and that is what we love the most. We have no idea when will she meet the love of her life but we are sure that whosoever it will be, will be the luckiest. That said, we wish you a very happy daughters day.

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